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Tips on Positive Parenting


  • Learn what you can reasonably expect for each age and stage of development as you teach your children new skills and shape their attitudes.
  • Be positive yourself. Focus on what your child does well and the actions you want to see.
Sarah who is 3, dressed herself in many different colours.
Dad's first thought was: "Oh no. She can't go out like that."
Then he realized that Sarah's effort in getting ready all by herself was much more important than her fashion statement. She could learn about matching colours another time.
  • Good job Sarah!
  • You got yoursef all dressed.
  • You're really helping us get ready in the morning.
  • Thank you!
Plan for regular sharing times - any time that fits with your daily routine and schedule when your children can tell you about their day, their ideas, and their feelings.
  • Sharing time could be during dinner or part of your children's bedtime routine.
  • You could keep a log of special memories or accomplishments shared.
  • Be clear and firm about the limits you set.
  • Provide alternatives to the unacceptable behaviour.
"Tim was jumping around and throwing a stuffed animal in the living room." You might say:
  • Tim, this is not the place to jump or throw things. There are things here that can break.
  • You can go outside to throw a ball or you can...
  • Problem solve together when an issue affects the family.
Have fun together.
Simple activities enjoyed together send the positive message that you care.
  • Mini-vacations
  • Picnics, hikes
  • Movie nights
  • Trips to the library and zoo
  • Cuddling up to read
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